Ian is now 14 years old and in the eighth grade at the local school. He is well-liked by his peers and always has a 'buddy' to help him get to class. In spite of all that he has been through, Ian has an incredible spirit about him, and other kids just like to be near him. At first, of course, it was a shock, and friends and family alike struggled to make sense of the situation. Now, Ian's wheelchair is just a part of him, and it's easy to forget that this is the boy with no legs.
After a rocky period right after the accident, Ian does well in school and loves history class. He thinks he wants to grow up to be a history teacher. There is something about the Civil War that fascinates him, and he is fond of making a joke to others that, "there wasn't nothing civil about that war" and immediate gets a kick out of himself.
Leila has dated some since the accident, but she just can't seem to put her heart into it. She's tried to give everything she had to the kids - particularly given Tyler's needs and Ian's. She sees herself as giving everything she has to her kids. She was in therapy for a short time but now focuses on keeping Ian and Tyler going to their regular appointments.
* Are there enrichment opportunities available for children like Ian? Summer camps? How affordable are such camps?
* What are the typical developmental milestones for a 14 year-old boy? Are there unique considerations regarding Ian's physical growth that have to be taken into account given his amputations?
* Are there mental health therapists who specialize in working with children like Ian? Are there any within Harrisonburg? Within 50 miles?
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Week 5
Ian is now 9 years of age. His brother Tyler survived the
accident but has a residual Traumatic Brain Injury that requires occupational
and physical therapy.
* Write a narrative “interview” in which you communicate
with Ian in an effort to get to know him.
* Write a narrative “interview” in which you talk with Ian’s
mother about him.
* Who is Ian? What kind of child is he? What might someone
expect upon meeting him for the first time? Base Ian’s imagined personality on
what you know about he and his family so far.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Week 4
Ian Mahoney – Week Four
Ian and Tyler were inseparable. Leila thought about how
sweet it was that the two loved each other so much. Tyler really did look out
for Ian, and Ian was as fond of his big brother as one could imagine. They were
like two peas in a pod. Ian was a healthy 7 year-old, and Tyler, at age ten, loved
running in the yard with his brother. After taking time to get herself together
after Phil’s death, Leila had started to try to meet someone. There were a
couple of “nice guys,” but the sparks just weren’t there. Then she met Eric. He
was wonderful – secure in himself, incredible good looks (people said he
resembled Brad Pitt), and a deep desire to be a dad. His first wife had died of
breast cancer six years before, and he was thrilled to meet Leila.
The two began spending time together, and Ian and Tyler took
to Eric. He really was a wonderful person – sensitive, kind, calm, and, at the
same time, very much an exceptional role model of what a man could be. Leila
couldn’t believe her good fortune – maybe this was Phil looking upon her from
above and helping her to move on.
Eric had gotten tickets to the first game of the big series
between the hometown team and their cross-state arch-rivals. Everyone was looking forward
to the family’s time together, even if it was a little cold and rainy. Leila
and Eric loaded up the kids in the car and started to make their way downtown.
Ian and Tyler were singing some silly song together, as usual. Leila was turned
around in her seat, laughing with them. As she turned toward the front of the
car, she later remembered hearing the screech of brakes and her own scream as
the truck smashed into the driver’s side of the car.
When Leila awoke, she was in a bed in a hospital. Her mother
had been contacted and was there in the room when she came to. Leila’s first
thought was to find her kids. She tried to get out of the bed, but the pain was
too great. Her mother was standing there with tears in her eyes. As if in a
dream, Leila slowly began to take in the horrible news: Eric had been killed,
and Tyler was still in a coma. Ian was in and out of consciousness with a head
injury – but he had also sustained severe injuries to both of his legs, and the
doctors did not think they could save them. They were trying to wait for Leila
to awaken in order to make a decision about what to do. Over the last 24 hours
that Leila had been unconscious, teams of doctors worked feverishly to stem the
bleeding in an attempt to keep Ian’s legs with him. Gangrene has started to set
in, however, and the head physician came to talk with Leila.
It was in this state of mind that Leila had to make the
terrible decision for the doctors to remove the legs.
* What are the major developmental milestones for a 7
year-old?
* What services would you recommend for Leila and Ian at
this point?
* What is the responsibility of the school in terms of
special education? What is the process that must occur so that the school can
meet Ian’s educational need? What kind of assessments should Ian have in order
to rule out a Traumatic Brain Injury?
* What might the school do to welcome Ian back when he
returns?
* How would you handle telling Ian’s classmates about what
happened? Who should be involved?
DECISION POINT:
Does Tyler come out of his coma? If so, does he have any
permanent brain damage?
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